Instead of vague-booking, I'll post the events. I feel like I'm about to have a mental breakdown. Yes, I believe I could've worded the initial PM better, but the response is (IMO) pathetic.
Facebook user 1 (In "Lost Pets in the West (*********, Australia)" group): I'm looking for a pet-sitter. My sitter cancelled. Please give me recommendations!!11!one! Etc etc.
Facebook user 2 after several comments tagging people: "Pawshake"
Admin of the group: "
I would not recommend Pawshake or any other website where the person does not have to prove who they are. Too many scammers advertising via those types of businesses and I have proof" [Proceeds to disable responses without providing any evidence.]
As a user of those websites, and privately as well, I understand the need for caution, but she is fear-mongering is simply wrong. I provide vision of driver's license, and police check, as well as previous educational certificates in the animal field, and proof of identity as requested. I sent her a PM.
PM to admin: "
"would not recommend Pawshake or any other website where the person does not have to prove who they are. Too many scammers advertising via those types of businesses and I have proof"
Respectfully, please keep personal opinion out of your recommendations. You can turn off comments, but you show your bias. By the same logic, I can provide "proof" (anecdotal evidence) that kennels are the worst option. You have your bad pawshake sitters, and you have your terrible kennels, who do "provide proof of identity." It doesn't mean they're any better than the others. What would be more appreciated is to advocate research. Do your research, communicate with ANYONE who will look after your pets, and ask lots of questions. Thanks."
PM From admin: "Thankyou *******, let me say this, I will post saying that any future reference to Pawshake in my groups is prohibited. After all, we are a Lost Pets Group, not a pet sitting recommendation club."
PM to admin: "That, I 100% agree with. It isn't the correct group, and there are more specific groups for recommendations. But should be towards any online pet-sitting website, kennels, or private requests.
All good.
"
PM from admin: "Yes, all good
Bye"
[Bans me from the FB group "dedicated" to Lost Pets and helping reunite pets with owners.]
In all honesty, is that a fair reaction? Am I in the wrong? I no longer know. Yes, I could word the first message better, but if the admin weren't fear-mongering and using anecdotal evidence as fact (which she has previously criticised others for doing,) I wouldn't've even looked twice.