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I don't really like how that's worded. I don't think you intended it as such, but it's inaccurate.

"[...]and your gp of the way your health is going"

That sounds like I'm suffering heavy depression, and am going down hill. It sounds like you believe I'm getting significantly worse, which isn't true. I'm fine again.

As I said, a number things came at me at the same time - regular life inconveniences; everyone gets these now and again - but I didn't have the time or energy to deal with them. They came too close together, and instead of having some time out to relax on the weekend, and process them, I had busy, noisy gatherings with people.
I had some stressors, combined with little time for myself to deal with them. Enough, that combined with other things, pushed me over normal stress levels. Yes, there were clear signs of being stressed (overwriting memories that I should have kept, and an very active mind that had to focus on going over those things,) but I took one day off work.
One day, which gave me that little extra time to unwind, and deal with the challenges.

Also, my boss knows I don't want to work away from Melbourne any further. He'd like to find extra local work, but at the moment, much of it is travelling away. That's a separate challenge, and I've accepted that if I'm asked to work away, I will speak with him and take the time off unpaid. It's only if I start working away too much, and it's because I have other things on.

*waves at bpc*

What I meant is - it's a bit hard to explain - make sure that you, in time, let the right people know it's affecting your health and that there might be consequences. Not saying take sick leave, that's not on.
I remember my colleague was in a similar situation, she went to her gp and told about the stress at work. As a result when she was scoulded by Human Resources (they're a nasty bunch at my work), her gp was able to say "she did mention before that if things didn't change, it would effect her health"
 
We do it regularly. I've never heard of cat socks or see the point fo that, because then he would have it on his socks.

He's still learning to cover his poop well enough. At least he's improved a lot of the last 3 weeks

Cat socks make for an unhappy cat.
And hopefully puss will learn soon. We had an old cat, who was a bit silly but most of all rather shortsighted. He couldn't leave the litterbox very succesfully, half the time he tripped over the rim of the litterbox, thus the whole thing collapsing on him, spooking him out and leaving him upset and us with quite a mess.....
 
Since we're all complaining about work -
as much as I love mine, mine's been too busy. I've not been able to leave desk/office/library at all this week and it's tiring me out.
But - one more day, and weekend.
 
Dark hot chocolate with whipped coconut cream would be wonderful, and don't be stingy with the Godiva liqueur.

Noodle, I'll take one of those wonderful pancakes please.

Loz? Loz? No Loz in the bar these days, I'll have to put up the bat signal.

*awaits pampering

*brings on special pampering pampers all the way from Pamplona*
 
Cyrax, you should play mafia, that would give you lots of stuff to read at work.

My left hand and arm are really sore. I did a tiny bit of yoga and apparently did something awful to my left arm. I swear I am made of glass. Or the gypsy curse has been reinforced. How can 1 downward facing dog pose mess up my arm? Sorry, I am being super complainy these days. I need some hugs and some hot chocolate with something grown up in it.

I'm familiar with that. For me it's the right hand. Since having my galbladder removed everything's more sensitive, and I get the joints and skin from my hands swelling up to the size of a muppet hand. Not too often but I am having it now.

No downward facing dog for me either.

A gypsy curse is only one letter away from a gypsy cure.
Maybe you can get a painting of a crying gypsy boy, but I still don't know why he was crying when he handed out the painting.
 
Go canada! That will teach america to have sold that piece of land for such a cheap price! Or was that Alaska, bot countries are weird and full of snow, can't really keep em apart ;p.
 
I got sold again yesterday. Not into slavery though. When I got to work this morning there was an email waiting saying that our company had been sold the day before. To some Americans. Really nice to get that before coffee. Gotta see how it works out this time.

*cuddles*
 
I got sold again yesterday. Not into slavery though. When I got to work this morning there was an email waiting saying that our company had been sold the day before. To some Americans. Really nice to get that before coffee. Gotta see how it works out this time.

*cuddles*

Did you know your company was for sale?
 
Cyrax, you should play mafia, that would give you lots of stuff to read at work.

My left hand and arm are really sore. I did a tiny bit of yoga and apparently did something awful to my left arm. I swear I am made of glass. Or the gypsy curse has been reinforced. How can 1 downward facing dog pose mess up my arm? Sorry, I am being super complainy these days. I need some hugs and some hot chocolate with something grown up in it.

Downward facing dog? Sounds dirty!!!
 
What I meant is - it's a bit hard to explain - make sure that you, in time, let the right people know it's affecting your health and that there might be consequences. Not saying take sick leave, that's not on.
I remember my colleague was in a similar situation, she went to her gp and told about the stress at work. As a result when she was scoulded by Human Resources (they're a nasty bunch at my work), her gp was able to say "she did mention before that if things didn't change, it would effect her health"

@Vivi - I just deleted a wall of text, but basically, I know you mean well, but it's fine, and my situation, and what you seem to think my situation is, are completely different There is nothing affecting my health negatively right now. I am not suffering from long-term stress, no depression, no mental illness. It was (past tense) a period where I had too much on, a couple burdens dropped on me suddenly, and I had little time to myself to recharge. I was burdened by events that everyone suffers now and again, and just needed a day off, as I was feeling (past tense) overwhelmed and stressed out.
I took sick leave (when I was okay with taking it off unpaid due to late notice,) which is allowable for personal time based on being ill - whether mental, physical, cold/flu/virus, or illness (not hangovers.) As to it being "not on" for being stressed out, I find that, in my case, incorrect. If I were to do it every month, or regularly, fine, but that is not my case. I am not suffering from long-term stress or depression. There is nothing (present tense) 'affecting my health,' and all that I required was one quiet day (could've been a weekend, but I had a family gathering I didn't want to attend, which prevented me from recharging,) to relax and recharge.
 
It's not just the giant spiders.

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I've probably posted this before, but it's so true it deserves to be seen on a regular basis!!
 
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