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Ok, Noodle, let's go. Mall. Restaurant. Shoes. I will try on at least 10 black dresses that will all look identical to you but I will get very upset if you don't have an opinion. But it has to be the right opinion. Ready?

Vivi, Noodle wasn't targeting anyone, he was teasing me, ok? And his punishment will be severe. I would force him to take me to a chick flick except that would be punishing me also. However, I might just have to suffer thru it if it means he learns his lesson. And I forget now what that was. ;)
 
I said that he wasn't targeting me. I'm just cranky. My medical complaints have taken a lot of fun out of the last week, and now my right hand is beginning to swell up again. It already hurts. Which is bad news, happened to me last year too.
So aye, I'm cranky, and don't mean to take it out on people, sorry.

Chick flicks are horrible. Ladies' night, where only female visitors allowed in the cinema to watch some silly romcom, are an abomination.
It creates an unequal society - where men think women are sextoys, and women think men should pay for everything on a date and give them expensive presents.
 
Ladies' night, where only female visitors allowed in the cinema to watch some silly romcom, are an abomination.
It creates an unequal society - where men think women are sextoys, and women think men should pay for everything on a date and give them expensive presents.

Ladies nights are illegal in California.
 
It creates an unequal society - where men think women are sextoys, and women think men should pay for everything on a date and give them expensive presents.

Are you saying women aren't sex toys? Then what are they good for? :badteeth:

Ok, i'm out of here before i get lynched.

*leaves in a hurry
 
I'm also thinking about making sure you don't leave it until it's too late and you have to leave work sick with a burnout. Also, if you notify your boss and your gp of the way your health is going, and it does go wrong, you can say "I did mention I was unable to cope".

I'd suggest not to do that if you don't need a sick leave really much. At least check out your country's insurance regulations before you do. I just had the case where my job insurance was put under restriction for recuring pysich health stuff. Reason for that being me being on a sick leave for depression for 6 month. I wasn't that depressed to ever make me going invalid because of that, but they cover their behinds whenever they can. So do not put things on file if you know any future insurrance company has legal rights to get you papers from your doc.

*cuddles*
 
I'm also thinking about making sure you don't leave it until it's too late and you have to leave work sick with a burnout. Also, if you notify your boss and your gp of the way your health is going, and it does go wrong, you can say "I did mention I was unable to cope".

I don't really like how that's worded. I don't think you intended it as such, but it's inaccurate.

"[...]and your gp of the way your health is going"

That sounds like I'm suffering heavy depression, and am going down hill. It sounds like you believe I'm getting significantly worse, which isn't true. I'm fine again.

As I said, a number things came at me at the same time - regular life inconveniences; everyone gets these now and again - but I didn't have the time or energy to deal with them. They came too close together, and instead of having some time out to relax on the weekend, and process them, I had busy, noisy gatherings with people.
I had some stressors, combined with little time for myself to deal with them. Enough, that combined with other things, pushed me over normal stress levels. Yes, there were clear signs of being stressed (overwriting memories that I should have kept, and an very active mind that had to focus on going over those things,) but I took one day off work.
One day, which gave me that little extra time to unwind, and deal with the challenges.

Also, my boss knows I don't want to work away from Melbourne any further. He'd like to find extra local work, but at the moment, much of it is travelling away. That's a separate challenge, and I've accepted that if I'm asked to work away, I will speak with him and take the time off unpaid. It's only if I start working away too much, and it's because I have other things on.

*waves at bpc*
 
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