I personally feel that saying "I was wrong" is far more powerful than "I'm sorry". Saying "I'm sorry" can mean a variety of things and doesn't necessarily imply the acceptance of personal responsibility for that something wrong, whereas saying "I was wrong" takes ownership of what went wrong. In my closing post I definitely thanked the playgroup for putting up with my mistakes and faux pas. If I'm sorry for anything, it's simply that I didn't do a better job.
I read TC's final paragraph wherein he reveals that he has some personal bad feelings towards me, and implies that he knows my "true character". If I restrict myself only to interactions on these forums, I can think of two things I've done which might have offended him. If I open up my entire life, well there's lots of things in there, mostly from well before I joined these forums, that I'm not so proud of. Quite frankly though, I've had the feeling for some time that TC doesn't like me. My truest character is that I would prefer to get along with all and if I offend someone I want to make it right.
@Thundercat - Obviously at some time or in some way over the years I gave you a great offense. I am unaware of what incident or incidents caused you to make a lens through which you view me that you refer to as my "true character". That's a harsh judgment to post about someone, though, as the implication there is that you view everything I say and do as suspect and colored by whatever it is I did to offend you. Since you feel strongly enough about it that you came into the dead thread QT uninvited to scold me and you felt the need to tell the entire mafia playgroup that I have some darker or sinister "true character", perhaps you would be willing to at least PM me what it is that I did or said that is at the root of this? Whatever it was, it seems like it deeply impacted you but I do not recall you and I having a tremendous amount of interaction with one another, so I am completely at a loss as to how or when I wronged you. At least tell me what I've done and allow me a chance to say that I was wrong and if it's possible to make it right.