Barry,
I know your challenge was directed towards Bongo, but if you will permit me, I’ll try and present a coherent, non-emotional argument on why I think PK-ing is the wrong thing to do. Wrong for me. You do what you want. But I’ll try and explain why I won’t.
We should first separate the “in-game†perspective from the “out-of-game†perspective. From an in-game perspective taking the role of a PK is allying your self with evil. You are trying to thwart the player from completing his quest of destroying the evil forces that have overrun the land. You know, the object of the game. That said, every story needs a good bad guy (side note: Watch the movie Extreme Prejudice. Powers Booth plays the bad guy and does a tremendous job. Easily the most interesting character in the movie). Anyway, back on topic. From an in game perspective I have no problem with PK-ing. As I previously stated, every story needs a bad guy and Baal can’t leave the throne room and come looking for you. In my opinion however, most people who complain about PK-ing never even consider the in-game perspective. They jump right to the out-of-game perspective and this is where things get prickly.
The way I look at the game is probably different than most people. You hear quite a few people say that Blizzard intended people to PK. I don’t look at it like that. I look at it this way; when you enter a game Blizzard gives you at least three choices. You can help – join the party, ignore – not party and quest on your own or hurt – hostile the other people in the game and try and kill their characters. Blizzard hasn’t told you what to do, they haven’t encouraged you one way or another. All they do is present you with a choice. What you do is your choice alone. Just like real life in a certain sense.
Speaking just for me, I don’t consciously try and do things that I know will negatively impact other people, especially not for my own enjoyment. That includes the way I play games. That’s not the person I am. I try to play unselfishly when I coop with other people. I don’t grab drops, I don’t lead monsters back to the party, etc, etc, etc. Say whatever you want, but the fact remains when you kill someone else’s character, you have negatively impacted them for your own enjoyment. I don’t care if it is just a game, that fact still remains. Bottom line, there’s no way around it. I would feel very uncomfortable making the statement “my fun is based on some one else’s painâ€. Game or not, that’s the statement you have to make when you choose to PK. As for me, my parents taught me to respect other people and their ideas and feelings. And that’s what I try and teach my children even when it comes to something as trivial as a game.
Having said all that we both know I’m not going to change anyone’s opinion, but I hope I have explained why I don’t PK.