Welcome to the SPF (summary)

sequana

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Welcome to the SPF (summary)

After carefully reading all the posts in my research thread and some other threads, I made this summary. Of course most of what is said here can be already found in the stickies, by lurking, or is obvious, but I bet it can’t hurt to summarise that in some “guide”. Even if only one person finds some inspiration here, then I say it’s worth the effort.


Tips for how to be welcome on the SPF (not only for newcomers):


• [highlight]Introduction[/highlight] – obviously a thing that is good to do, this should be clear. Remember that the first impression can be important : ). As a newcomer, it would be a good idea to tell a little bit about your playing habits; how you play D2 and how you played D2 before joining the SPF. This can be especially important if you will be MP’ing or trading, that way people can more comfortably start building trust.


• [highlight]Posting into the IFT (Item Find Thread)[/highlight] – well no one can forbid a newcomer to post an Enigma as his first IFT post, but at the same time it can be a very unlucky beginning here. Starting by posting some other - a bit more common - nice/interesting items will result in better success. And if a newcomer does want to post some very high-end item such as an Enigma, it would be a good idea to explain it clearly that where he/she found the runes for it.

If you do HF rushing, you should be able to explain some details, because you did it. To say something like “I rushed a Jah, but I didn’t care to remember how long it took/how many rushes (even approximately) I did” *can* just sound suspicious.

Also to only claim “I did 10-20k LK runs and here I go with Infinity” can be a bit unlucky. Sure if someone aims for this weapon, then he/she doesn’t care so much about some lower runes, charms..., but on the other hand, to post couple of lower runes/nice items what you for sure found during Infinity hunting can be a good idea how to make your final result more trustworthy.

High runes are still rare (even though thanks to the prevalence of HF rushing and LK running not as much as they used to be), so many of us have a hard time to understand why to put dear HR without thinking into the first armor/weapon with the appropriate number of sockets.

Some of you want to try some uber RW that is generally out of reach. You know “What you do on your comp is your thing...as long as you don’t trade and MP”. That’s true. You can try it. But then don’t try to pretend here that you found/earned those runes, many people can read between the lines and not all of us like fairy-tales so this is not a good way how to gain respect quickly.


• [highlight]Self-presentation[/highlight] – big part of respect can be gained with nice and mature presentation here. To write a great build guide of course helps, but not all of us are capable of this. But great respect have also people who give good advice and game tips to others, write interesting mat/pat threads (and that doesn’t mean only characters with uber items), are visible in tournaments, are great fellows in MP games, make a character lvl 99 :) .....but also those who have a sense for empathy, give advice in OT threads or share RL stories, or just have nice posts.

Frankly, even grammar is in a way important. Not all of us are native speakers (including me) and to formulate thoughts into sentences so that it sounds as we intended, can be a task. But spending a bit more time with the right formulation of words can pay off.


• [highlight]Spamming[/highlight] – it is not recommended to spam. But truth is that some reasonable amount of spamming can be cute and funny and makes this place warm, some threads even desire spamming : ). But on the other hand, if a new member starts to post into every thread, 20 nonsense posts per day or can’t estimate where being kind ends and being a bootlicker starts, it can be annoying and ruin all respect.


• [highlight]Congratulating [/highlight]– congratulating someone for a good reason, for some nice item find for example is fitting and polite. Although it’s not a good idea to fill the IFT with congratulation posts, but in general, congratulating for a good reason is a nice thing.

Of course what qualifies as a good reason is relative; for someone who is just starting a new melee character with no items, finding a Cathan’s Seal ring can be a blessing, whereas for someone who has MF’d a lot and for a long time finding a mediocre roll Death’s Fathom for example isn’t anything special.

But there is another aspect of this subject, which should be at least considered. If a newcomer makes a post where he/she mentions how he/she has a sorceress with many absolute high end items (e.g. 2x Dream, Infinity, CtA, etc.), but in no way explains where from and how he/she acquired those items, and then in the same post tells how he/she found his/her first ever Oculus on SP, and tells what a great find it was, it’s maybe not a good idea to congratulate for that, because quite frankly, in such situation the legitimacy of the newcomer would be far from clear. In worst case, congratulating in such situation could encourage illegitimate gameplay.

It’s not a good idea to start flaming either. Instead, it would be good to politely point out that the find (Oculus vs. multiple high-end rune words) seems very contradicting considering the item wealth the person already has. Pointing that out politely can give the newcomer a chance to explain the circumstances a bit, that way possibly giving a better impression to the forum.


•[highlight] Asking/giving advice[/highlight] – many general tips can be found in the Sticky threads, read them : ). If you can’t find advice there, then try to create a question as clear as possible, with relevant title, to prevent others from being confused and having to guess what you are asking about (again good English can help).

If you ask for some game/character tips, it’s also good to mention your D2 wealth, so you can get the most effective and relevant reply. And vice versa, if you give advice, you should take this into account. Of course everyone theoretically can do 2k Meph runs and 10k Pindle runs and gain desirable items, but not everyone plays 24/7. Every high-end item has some cheaper equivalent.


• [highlight]Debatable post[/highlight] – like posts in IFT/mat/pat threads which look suspicious or flaming posts as reaction to them. Maybe the best idea is to not contribute here (no false congratulations, no more sarcastic and/or snide comments). If someone wants to just brag about something which you consider as false, don’t support that in any way, don’t feed his/her need for attention. If something is too much over the top, then I even don’t see any reason why to feel uncomfortable to use the report button. Its purpose is to protect this place.


Credits:

Smips, Andronicus, VoX Dei, stephan, amne, BobTheWarrior, Noodle, Low Key, Ipsilantee and many others (I merely listed members, whose posts inspired me to make some additions into my writing).

Special thanks to Denton for his patience with me and grammar correction (heh I’m not native speaker by any means).
 
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minor nitpicks:

many general tips can be found in the Sticky threads, read it : ).

replace the "it" with a "them"

now for some first impressions: (all in good intent)

1. it creates an atmosphere of intolerance, however justified and "it's-like-that,-deal-with-it" that intolerance might be
it sounds like a "10 tips to become a forum gentleman" guide... not saying it doesn't leave room for "being yourself", but saying it probably will make a newcomer a wee bit uncomfortable (it did to me)
maybe lighten the post up with some benevolence/humour?
i seriously felt uncomfortable reading the bootlicker part, for example... if i congratulate someone now, even though i feel it's perfectly reasonable, the question of "am i being too bootlick-esque-ish?" will pop up in my mind and haunt me (exaggerated a bit, sorry, don't know how to post a first impression in a moderate way)

2. seriously, it's very well written, if you don't want to change anything, keep it

3. in the style of the paragraph on spam... what about smilies ;) they add another human element to your posts

generally: nice work!
 
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1. it creates an atmosphere of intolerance, however justified and "it's-like-that,-deal-with-it" that intolerance might be
it sounds like a "10 tips to become a forum gentleman" guide... not saying it doesn't leave room for "being yourself", but saying it probably will make a newcomer a wee bit uncomfortable (it did to me)

I don't think that this thread is written with the aim of force newcomers not to be themselve. It should help them with their first steps here on SPF, which seem to be somewhat unlucky in many cases.

Newcomers feeling incomfortable are another story. When you are new somewhere, it could be quite common that you don't know the community well, being modest and having patience could be a good idea in some cases, if you want to fit in properly.



 
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Thanks. I'm open to critique.

i seriously felt uncomfortable reading the bootlicker part, for example... if i congratulate someone now, even though i feel it's perfectly reasonable, the question of "am i being too bootlick-esque-ish?" will pop up in my mind and haunt me (exaggerated a bit, sorry, don't know how to post a first impression in a moderate way)

Hm, I see. It's a bit misunderstanding, I didn't mean it in this way at all. I would never insult people who honestly congrats someone on anything. I also do that (and shamefully not as often as I should, because this is just good thing to do).


And there is smilie in the spam paragraph : )



 
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no worries, just wanted to blurt out the worst i can throw on you! i see you're taking it quite well, that's all the constructive criticism you'll be getting from me : )
 
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For someone who is not a native speaker, your guide is well written. I have a few quibbles with phrasing here and there, but I am ultimately impressed.

(After all, if I were to try to write in e.g. German, we would all be ripping out our eyeballs in frustration. :P )
 
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Good effort, Sequana.

The integration of ideas from various people into a coherent whole looks solid. Paragraphs contain separate ideas. The English also looks good from my non-native English speaker perspective.

Just one thing, I can't help wondering. I understand D2 attracts players from a wide range of ages, but is it really necessary to put all this information into a guide? I mean, doesn't a mature person (ie, the majority) already have implicit understanding on how to behave without reading a guide on the subject?
 
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A mature person does, yes.

The question i think would be: How badly is this guide needed?
 
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Excellent idea and execution sequana!

One idea may be to add links to some of our OT threads that give everyone an impression of what kind of people frequent the SPF. The current "Where in the World" thread comes to mind, and there was one almost a year ago, or more, about where your forum name comes from. This could give people ideas on who they're going to be interacting with and hopefully encourage (sp?) them to go ahead and post an intro or help them recognize this community isn't for them and avoid some of the unpleasantness that can come about.

Also, maybe you could include links to some of the better written mat/pat threads (SirPoopsAlot has good ones, AJK's are very entertaining, Liquid Evil stands out, Nagisa writes good fiction into his, and of course there's Nightfish, etc.)

Just some ideas to help everyone feel more comfortable with this wonderful place. I personally lurked here for months before posting, so I had a great idea of what was expected, but I'm not most people.

Great work! :thumbup:
 
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Good work with this, Seq! Now, some thoughts on the subject.

I'd be a little wary of trying to push Mat/Pat threads as seemingly "mandatory" part of the forums, like intro threads are. The truth is, for a lot of people writing something so large can be a bit of a daunting task, especially if the person in question is a non-native speaker. Being "forced" to write one having them shoved in your face might seem a little too oppressive for a certain type of a poster.

I myself hate writing them and only do so when I feel I have something to show off.
 
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I agree with Low Key about the mat/pat thread. Usually my builds are typical and well known so I think that would be annoying to most people.
 
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I agree with you guys - writing Mat/Pat threads should be optional, not mandatory.

PS: I do, however, enjoy very much writing Mat/Pat threads and reading other people's too (most of them anyway :grin:).
 
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Oh my : ), I agree with you. I never said that writing mat/pat threads should be mandatory or some duty (heh, look at me, I wrote one poor quality mat thread in deep past and it was a task for me : )). In fact, I meant it in rather opposite way. Like people don't have to worry if they are not ready to write such threads, there are many other options how settle here. I hope it makes some sense now.
 
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Just one thing, I can't help wondering. I understand D2 attracts players from a wide range of ages, but is it really necessary to put all this information into a guide? I mean, doesn't a mature person (ie, the majority) already have implicit understanding on how to behave without reading a guide on the subject?

A mature person does, yes.

The question i think would be: How badly is this guide needed?


I think this guide could be compared to a D2 character build guide. Most experienced players already know how to plan and make an effective and optimized character build or three for most of the character classes, so of course the experienced players don't really need the guide. But even for experienced players there can be some useful tips and/or interesting points of views in the guide. At worst, everything in the guide is already known by the person reading the guide, and I think there's no harm done by that.

And for people who are new to the SPF, I think this guide can give some useful advice for how to blend into the SPF more smoothly. Sure some newcomers may lurk around the SPF for a long time before joining, and that way already know quite well that what kind of a place the SPF is. But not everyone spends so much time to understand the atmosphere and soul of the SPF thoroughly beforehand (nor it is a need to do so).

It's just a friendly guide, it's not a set of rules for behavior; of course everyone can behave as they want, as long as they don't break the forum's rules. The guide just contains some (in my opinion) useful tips and information. Anyone reading the guide can decide whether the information is really interesting or not; for Newcomer_A it could be boring, whereas for Newcomer_B it could be quite interesting and perhaps even a bit enlightening (and for SPF_veteran_A it could be: "tl;dr"). : )



 
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My main concern was that the tone of the guide could somehow be perceived as unfriendly by some newcomers, but I can't really find a flaw in your arguments Denton, so I'll have to agree with you.

I also feel the latest intro threads have definitely increased in quality, and that's very likely due to the ongoing discussion. In short, I think the guide deserves a sticky.
 
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Excellent summary.

If this is going to be kept around as a "guide" or "reference," I suggest adding another short section (or a note somewhere) about the moderators and their usefulness. Those green dudes are awfully helpful, and always cordial. Have a specific question about posting a thread or trying to trade? PM a moderator. Doubtful of another forumite's legitamcy or playing habits? PM a mod. After all, it's their responsiblity to help people on the forum, but they can only do that if the people on the forum remember to ask them :thumbsup:.
 
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This has now been added to the SPF FAQ.

Thanks for the effort. :)
 
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Sequana,

Can you possibly include something that explains to a newcomer just exactly how trading works, or provide a link to something that does? I don't mean the trading rules over on the trade forum, I mean something that explains how to find the right items and format them for email to someone else/how to install files that someone else has sent to you. I'm sure it's a simple process, but a lot of us have never traded files in a game before,or had anyone explain how to do it.
 
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@Thy: Thank you :).

@Edgreyfox: Hm, that's a good idea. But I think such instruction should be placed rather into the SPTF's Stickies, because people who want to trade usually (hopefully) read those stickies, it would be easier and more logical to find that information from there.

@JoeBruce: Thank you. Such part about PMing mods is already very nicely said in Stickies. I wouldn't want to only repeat that (although I know I repeat many other things ;)).



I can feel that the guide could have been written in a little bit softer way, but I hope it's still alright. Maybe it's because I'm a scientist, so I'm more used to dealing with facts in a bit cold way :yes:. I didn't mean it in unfriendly way at all.
 
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