OT: PD2: Everyone Makes Mistakes

Why should this happen?

  • It's time for a change . . . time to be ruled by a giant worm who actually looks the part.

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  • Because Fish Speakers will kill us if we oppose you, Lord.

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  • LOLOL cuz Bush SUCK'S hahaha

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  • LOLOL cuz Kerry is TERROR HEINZ FRANCE LOVING ZOMBIE hahaha

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  • You're mad! Nader will draw away just enough votes to prevent you from taking control of the known u

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  • I have learned that the Tleilaxu have attempted to obtain fissile materials from Sudan . . .

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  • It's a good idea because the Fish Speakers have lovely bodies. (BOOBIES)

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  • Brewers will be held in reverence and awe (BEER)

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  • Powerful, opulent, intelligent, nutball god! (POING)

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  • You're going to be able to blame me legitimately for the next hundred generations. (YOU KNOW)

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I had a dream last night, it was weird. I don't remember much of it.

I was going to the movies or something and my family was there. I didn't have my car, but I was going to meet my cousin there, my grandparents were taking him and my mom was taking me. At some point we had to stop and to get to the movies I had to climb a mountain. The peak of the mountain was the property line for a witch (I think she was a witch). Anyways, I don't remember much of what happened after that (I was vague about what happened because I don't really remember anyways), but I remember the ground like swallowing one of my legs and me pulling it out, and I remember waiting behind a tree to try and ambush something.


 
http://www.apple.com/trailers/dreamworks/the_terminal/

Interesting concept for a movie. I think Tom Hanks is an excellent actor as well, so bonus points for that.
 
god damn. i hate my ****ing life.

i have no game, whatsoever with talking to girls i don't know, or approaching new girls.

i need some advice. i don't know if it is as simple as just doing what my gut feeling tells me to do.
like if i see a hot girl on campus, how am i supposed to get to know her, short of stalking her?

my instinct is to go up to her and ask her to do something with me, but i lack the knowledge of what to say to her, firstly to introduce myself. i think i can manage to come up with stuff to say after that, but it is the initial thing that ****ing kills me.

and then i have even lower self esteem because i am an indian on a campus full of white people. no i am not turing this into a race thing, but i don't know if white girls on this campus like indian guys.

im really angry at myself right now. there is this one girl on campus who was in my italian drill class for a few weeks last semester whom i managed to get the courage up to ask her out on a lunch date. no i dont think the date went awesome, mostly because it was my first ever, yes ever, and at the end she ended with, 'well, see you around campus', which i took to mean later forever.

well, i still think she is amazingly hot, even though all my friends don't, but i don't care about their damn opinions when it comes to girls, since they like some pretty wierd girls. but that date was last semester, and every time i have seen her around campus since, like the ****ing moron i am i have acted like i didnt know her, not even a smile, nothing. and when she is gone past i feel like kicking myself for not smiling or saying hi.

and now today is kings and queens, a dance, and everyone has a date, but me. it isnt specifically about today, but more so about the whole thing that i dont know any girls (i do know some, just not alot), and i dont know any girls i would like to date or go out with.

man, i feel horrible right now, the window looks like a good option right now, although i know i would never jump.

well, im going to go back to listening to music really loud to drown my sorrows, since i lack any alcohol tonight.

**** it all.
 
i have no game, whatsoever with talking to girls i don't know, or approaching new girls.

What usually helps me, is if they're alone and sitting down. I know, this sounds weird, but I just go sit next to them and talk to them. This gives me something to focus on, I just have to sit in that seat....

i need some advice. i don't know if it is as simple as just doing what my gut feeling tells me to do.
like if i see a hot girl on campus, how am i supposed to get to know her, short of stalking her?

Hey I'm "blah blah" what's your name? What are you into? Etc. Just make small talk.

and then i have even lower self esteem because i am an indian on a campus full of white people. no i am not turing this into a race thing, but i don't know if white girls on this campus like indian guys.

That has nothing to do with being idian, that has to do with being human. "What if they don't like me because of THIS" - fear of not being accepted.

AFK dinner, respond more later.
 
I don't know how to help, the girls just fall into bed with me ^___^

:|

I wouldn't be hell-bent on the hottest chicks in school, go for one who shows promise or is decent looking, or even just for personality (gasp). You might find you feel more comfortable around a normal chick.
 
Æ’enris said:
I wouldn't be hell-bent on the hottest chicks in school, go for one who shows promise or is decent looking, or even just for personality (gasp). You might find you feel more comfortable around a normal chick.
well, to me she is the hottest chick around, but by all standards i think she would not range in the super hot chick range. definitely above average, but the guys i hang out with aren't with me on this one.

im not sure how personality comes into play when i do not get a chance to meet the person and guage their personality.
im talking about the fact that i am not meeting any new girls, girls i do not know, and could get to know. i don't know how i should be going about meeting new girls.
i am definitely big on personality, but dont have a chance to find this out.

i definitely felt comfortable around this girl. the date didnt go so well because i dont generally talk alot, and this meant that i wasnt asking alot of questions, etc. but i wasnt fidgeting/stressing during the date. i would like to think that i was calm and controlled.

there also is the fact that everytime i have seen the girl/passed her along the paths i have kinda looked away and not smiled at her, acknowledging that i do know her. so this is obviously bad, and i wish i hadnt done this. but she is the only person/girl that i would consider approaching right now, and asking her to do something. damn problem is she is always around people/ i am with people when i have an opportunity to talk to her.

life sucks.

anyways, thanks for the advice of sorts fen and mep as well (and i am sure the girls are just lining to jump in bed with ya fen, gogo with your game).
 
tintrail said:
well, to me she is the hottest chick around, but by all standards i think she would not range in the super hot chick range. definitely above average, but the guys i hang out with aren't with me on this one.

im not sure how personality comes into play when i do not get a chance to meet the person and guage their personality.
im talking about the fact that i am not meeting any new girls, girls i do not know, and could get to know. i don't know how i should be going about meeting new girls.
i am definitely big on personality, but dont have a chance to find this out.

i definitely felt comfortable around this girl. the date didnt go so well because i dont generally talk alot, and this meant that i wasnt asking alot of questions, etc. but i wasnt fidgeting/stressing during the date. i would like to think that i was calm and controlled.

there also is the fact that everytime i have seen the girl/passed her along the paths i have kinda looked away and not smiled at her, acknowledging that i do know her. so this is obviously bad, and i wish i hadnt done this. but she is the only person/girl that i would consider approaching right now, and asking her to do something. damn problem is she is always around people/ i am with people when i have an opportunity to talk to her.

life sucks.

anyways, thanks for the advice of sorts fen and mep as well (and i am sure the girls are just lining to jump in bed with ya fen, gogo with your game).
chances are.. fen doesn't have a game, he's probably a 34 year old virgin that lives with his parents...
i also have no game... but that's because i haven't even bothered to step out onto the court yet
all in all... ur not alone... i think the girls don't like me cuz i'm lazy, poor, i have no car and no life... and i smell like burgers and grease (mcd's = girl repelent)
 
I don't know...sounds to me like you just need to make the effort.
Don't worry about what's gonna happen if **** goes bad...what do you have to lose? Worst case scenario, she just flat out doesn't like you and you have no relationship with her. Well guess what, you don't have a relationship with her now. Smile, wave, talk when you can, maybe ask her to a dance when she's free, just let her know you're interested and see how she reacts.

Black_Dog said:
chances are.. fen doesn't have a game, he's probably a 34 year old virgin that lives with his parents...
i also have no game... but that's because i haven't even bothered to step out onto the court yet
all in all... ur not alone... i think the girls don't like me cuz i'm lazy, poor, i have no car and no life... and i smell like burgers and grease (mcd's = girl repelent)
Thirtyfive ^_^
Oh...dude, chicks majorly dig smell/cleanliness etc, a few exs and other women I talk to all agree 'some cologne is such a turn-on it's wrong'. Blabla works at mcdonalds lmfao.
 
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