Brunz its gonna be a little hard to help you out as much as your hoping. The whole stat placement always boils down to your char personally. Its like a tailored suit. What fits someone else perfect could be a lil snug around the nugz for you. If you had all your end game gear already it would be much more helpful. Armor plays a HUGE role in what the rest should be. For now gear suggestions would be about as good as its going to get. Im not top notch in pvp but I have a fairly good idea as to what druids get the most milage out of. Ill list a few things and maybe youll like them maybe some of the other guys can throw some suggestions in and help you on your way. Heres what I really want to use myself and why. (not that i can afford right now ><)
Helm
Jalals Mane- This doesnt really need to be explainded now does it? Sure cerberus is the specialty shifter helm but this baby is overall the sweetest. str bonus to help u get to SS, mad skills, FHR etc etc.
Armor
Sup Archon Coh- fairly low str which can be reached quite easily with Jalals. 103 str req. CoH adds monsterous stats all around. 20 str, 65 resists, 2 skills, big def. I just dont see how you can go wrong with it.
Belt
Trang-Ouls Girth- Yes the set necro belt. This one is very oppioniated I suppose. Verdungos has the ever useful DR but Trangs allows you to pimp CBF, and 66 life. After shifting thats over 300 life. Dungos doesnt work the same as its vit bonus. CBF free's up other slots for useful mods.
Boots
Waterwalks- Big life and Dex. 15 dex on a boot is nice. No need to explain is there?
Gloves
Bloodfists- This is almost a staple druid item. Come on now.
Well thats what I would use. Sure I have to pump more str and dex than some, but those life bonuses and free'd up item slots allow for more IMHO.
It still keeps base str and vit fairly low. This is just a suggestion people. Dont fry me now by saying there is a better way. Im sure there is and Im all ears and more than willing to help find it. This is just where I started looking.

Heres hoping someone else helps.
*edit*
I just thought I figured what I would need str wise to use my current gear if I had planned right. Currently mt base is enough for SS. Ouch I know. But if i took enough to use str bug I would need 121. thats using Jalals, anni, a gc i have with 4 str. I use ornate CoH so it does me no good str boost wise since its 170 str. >< damn. If i had Archon or a nice low str CoH it could be chopped by another 20 pts. Just had to throw that comment in to give u an idea where ud be.