That's a bit too complicated to explain as there's a lot of things involved I don't want to talk about online though I did in the past. So let's just stick with that, while I am aware that all boys at some point will watch porn, most of 'm at the start out of curiosity, which I understand. The bother for me is those who keep at it and in whose heads porn replaces reality.
There are more of those out there than I'd like, and without talking about it, I can tell you one of them has caused such serious damage that it still affects relationships I have in the now.
They say women have unrealistic fantasies of sensitive familymen who understand all their needs and emotions and quirks, which is probably true, but that is just as deranged as the image some guys have in their head about women and how they should be treated.